I had 16 mscarraiges, some might say that is selfish to carry on, but i have 3 beautiful children and I was diagnosed with thrombosis of the placenta,and I would do it all again. My last child was born at 31 weeks and I did decide then because of huge complications that I wasn't going to put my self through any more, but I am a big believer in trying again, as long as your not putting yourself at risk then why punish yourself with the 'what ifs'. My advice is to keep trying untill your family is complete. I have learnt by experiences and can share with others, hope that helps, be stronge xx

my twins were born 11 weeks premature and a year later i gave birth to a healthy baby after carrying to term noone can predict how any pregnancy will go but you cant let fear of premature birth put you off more children if it is what you want. the only advice i would give you is take it easy throughout the pregnancy and enjoy the experience. children are very resilient and as long as they feel love and security from their parents they will take any changes in their stride