i totaly agree with the  comment on jeremy kyle. having to hit on some painful truths that many people are just ignoring  or failing to see which effects both their work  & personal life . especialy where many people have had unplanned children . & are acting  like children themselves ..

i have always found the man is totaly to the point , &  shows a very good level of self control . where a few people in teh same job may well have cracked..