I'm not sure what my perfect partner would be like, though I agree with the poll on the other thread. Humour is a must, and looks are important too. I'm just enjoying being single right now though. I have friends in Hong Kong, and I go out to stay with them every year or so. I usually arrange to meet up with girls over the internet before I go. Its more exciting that way, because you can meet all sorts of people. I've slept with a few Chinese girls, and one Indian girl who lives in HK. I'm going to see if I can meet some bisexual girls and arrange a threesome. That would be awesome...

I have recently spilt from my husband. At times i feel very lonely, but i am not ready to go back into a relationship just yet. I just want a companion to go for a drink together or the cinemas. Nothing else just yet tho, i'm not ready!

I am sure your know when the time is right to start dating again, I guess there are plenty of men and women to go for a drink with, perhaps try joining a dance class (salsa) or something similar. Good Luck

~xcolette mariex~:

I have recently spilt from my husband. At times i feel very lonely, but i am not ready to go back into a relationship just yet. I just want a companion to go for a drink together or the cinemas. Nothing else just yet tho, i'm not ready!

It'll never do harm putting a bit of space between what was and the future.  Agreed about an Adult Education class or similar (though they aren't so much fun today since ofsted got hold of them.  Once, you could attend because you enjoyed whatever you went for.  Now you have to have aims and objectives!) 

Maybe pop into your local library and elsewhere and see what's going around town.

Good luck and here's hoping you find a nice companion!

Im not like you. I don't think looks are important. The problem with having a good looking partner, is that theirs always that feeling that somone else is looking at them funny (when your out) As much as having a good looking partner would be a great bonus, i think i'd be too insecure for my own good. The problem with a lot of people i know, is that they seem to be so steriotypical. For example they will automatically think that someone who looks for girls/guys online has issues. I personally think its fine as long as you know what your doing but i could never say that to people as they'd think i've got issues.