hi my name is dale, im 17 and last friday i proposed to my girlfriend,

 however the following monday she turned round and told me we were finished,

 we argue over silly little things all the time and she takes it too serious, 

however she still loves me to bits ans she cried her eyes out when we finsihed and has gone into depression, 

what should i do stay friends with her and make her feel better and give her some space or bumb her off, 

im also going into depresson and im waiting all day for her to come online, id do anything to get back with her, 

been going out 6 and a half months, weve been through pregnancy and a misscarrige also :( help me please :(

dalecox92:

hi my name is dale, im 17 and last friday i proposed to my girlfriend,

 however the following monday she turned round and told me we were finished,

 we argue over silly little things all the time and she takes it too serious, 

however she still loves me to bits ans she cried her eyes out when we finsihed and has gone into depression, 

what should i do stay friends with her and make her feel better and give her some space or bumb her off, 

im also going into depresson and im waiting all day for her to come online, id do anything to get back with her, 

been going out 6 and a half months, weve been through pregnancy and a misscarrige also :( help me please :(

Bump her off as in a getting a hitman or something?  That's kinda extreme but love moves in mysterious ways dude.

Joking aside, deal with your depression first and let your ex deal with hers.  If you get back together now, it will not improve anything as you're both depressed.  I'm sure the genius Graham would agree with me (we got our counselling certificates from the same eBay seller). 

6 and a half months and you've experienced a pregnancy and miscarriage in that time?  Perhaps next time you're in a relationship, you'll wait a little longer before dealing with life changing moments.  You're 17 and could've been a Dad but now you've split up, you're depressed.  I'm not sure how you would've coped with parenting but believe me, every day is a test.  It's hard work having a baby who requires constant attention...imo, it's far more stresfful than dealing with a break up.  I don't want to paint a negative picture of parenting though as nothing is more rewarding than watching your child grow and develop as a result of the love, care and attention you nurture its life with but i'm just being realistic, it's hard work!

For now though Dale, seek help with your depression.  As Graham always says, you may need to learn some coping strategies to deal with situations like this.  Take his word for it as he is a <strike>hypnotherapist</strike> genius.